I hate being on speaker, most people who know me knows this.
When I am directly talking to someone, its person to person. When talking to someone on speaker its no longer personal. I might as well be yelling the information in a crowded mall in my underwear.
Speakers are great for broadcasting important information to the public, find people to rally to your cause.
But recently I was trying to speak up so the other person in question can hear me and they got upset and claim I snapped at them. I try to explain I wasn't snapping and said person had to confirm his accusation with friends.
Is this a trap? I believe it is.
But I really don't care what others think of me anyway. Never said I was perfect, not going to apologize more than necessary, not going to grovel, just let it go. Not worth fighting over.
I've been trapped by ex's like this before and it doesn't end with a handshake. These traps are there way to prove whatever point they thought they were making and gives them an excuse to leave. Luckily for him i don't hold grudges. Just wished him the best and continued life as if nothing happened. If you want to go...just go. If you are through just say so and go.
My friends say I'm way too patient and that they would have left a long time a go Maybe I am and could have moved on. But I don't .... I try to see things through.
How many traps did you get snared in?
